WHY PEOPLE SHOUT IN ANGER

A  saint who was visiting river Ganges to take bath found a group
of family members on the banks, shouting in anger at each other. He
turned to his disciples smiled 'n asked. 'Why do people shout in anger
shout at each other?' Disciples thought for a while, one of them said,
'Because we lose our calm, we shout.' 'But, why should you shout when
the other person is just next to you? You can as well tell him what
you have to say in a soft manner.' asked the saint Disciples gave some
other answers but none satisfied the other disciples.

   Finally the saint explained, 'When two people are angry at each other,
their hearts distance a lot. To cover that distance they must shout to be
able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will
have to shout to hear each other to cover that great distance. But
when they love each other, they don't shout at each other but talk
softly, because their hearts are very close. The distance between them
is either nonexistent or very small. The more they love each other,
the more softly they speak to each other.’ So when you argue do not
let your hearts get distant, do not say words that distance each other
more, Or else there will come a day when the distance is so great that
you will not find the path to return.